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Kathei McCoy, affectionately known as Coach Kathei, is an ordained minister and Certified Life Coach on a mission to write stories, speak messages and teach principles that empower women and girls to live in the fierceness of truth and freedom. 


When God’s private message “its time to deal with your insecurities” became public during an altar call at a women’s retreat, Kathei stopped hiding from the truth of her own struggle with jealousy and envy that secretly led to depression and pain nursing addictions. Kathei intentionally engaged life-work through counseling, coaching, reading and writing that has helped her claim and embrace her fierceness within.

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Coach Kathei is committed to teaching the powerful principles and beliefs that helped her find her own fierceness of self love, truth and confidence through coaching, leading workshops, speaking at retreats and publishing writings that boldly address issues blocking women and girls from their own freedom. Kathei has been speaking, teaching and facilitating workshops for over 10 years. In December 2014, she left a 20 year career in county government to pursue her passion to serve and support women in their journey to freedom full time. 

Kathei believes the real tragedy of any painful loss is when we get get stuck and never discover the meaning and purpose of our pain. She will encourage you to boldly face your tragedy by answering the burning question, “What will I do with my pain?” After grieving the painful murder of her one and only son, K'Breyan Clark, she is turning his tragic death into a movement for women called “Save Our Sons.” An original story teller and brand ambassador of the globally recognized movement for women and girls Wonder of Women International; founding member of the first Christian Sorority in Washington State Gamma Pi and the loving wife of 17 years to her husband Raymond McCoy.

Licenses & Certifications
  • Ordained Clergy

  • Certified Life Coach

  • Declutter Mastery

Special Areas & Expertise
  • Recovering from Grief, Mending Your Broken Heart​

  • Discovering Behavior Patterns that Block Your Progress

  • Spiritual Healing, Forgiveness & Cleansing

  • Mothers Raising Sons, Lost their Son & Imprisoned Son

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